Walima ka Sunnat Tareeqa

1. Walima Ka Sunnat Tareeqa Shadi Nikah Dawat E Walima Sharai Asool Ka Sharai o Lughwi Mafhoom

Deen-e-Islam ek mukammal zaabta-e-hayat hai jo aqaaid, ibadaat, mamlaat aur akhlaqiyyat me poori insaniyat ki hidayat farmata hai. Jab hum walima ka sunnat tareeqa shadi nikah dawat e walima sharai asool ki sharai hesiyat ka jaiza lete hain, to ye baat nihayat wazeh ho kar samne aati hai ke Aslaf-e-Saliheen, Aimma-e-Mujtahideen, aur Ahle Sunnat wal Jamaat ke jumhoor ulema ne hamesha is amar ko Quran-o-Sunnah ki asoolon par parkha hai.

Lughwi aitibar se is lafz ke maani paakizgi, itaat, tabedaari aur haq par qayam rehne ke aate hain. Istilah-e-shariat me iska maqsad banday ko uske Khaliq-o-Malik se jodhna aur Nabi-e-Kareem, Rahmatul-lil-Aalameen Hazrat Muhammad Mustafa ﷺ ke naqsh-e-qadam par chalana hai.

Hanafi Fiqh ke azeem ulema—jinke sarbarah Imam-e-Azam Abu Hanifa Nu’man bin Thabit (R.A.) hain—ne hamesha nusoos-e-shariah (Quran aur Sunnah) ke ma-baad usool aur qawaid ko samne rakh kar har maslay ki tahqeeq farmai hai. Ahle Sunnat wal Jamaat ka tareeqa hamesha aitedal, aman aur adab-e-risalat par mabni raha hai. Isme na to kutto-nifaq ki gunjaish hai aur na hi kisi qism ki ghulo aur bidat-e-dalalah ki.

2. Aayaat-e-Quraniyyah se Qat’i Dalaail o Barahin

Allah Tabarak wa Ta’ala ne Kalam-e-Majeed me is ahem mauzoo par wazeh hidayat ata farmai hai. Surah mubarakah me irshad-e-bari ta’ala hota hai:

Shadi aur walima ke mauqe par lakhon rupaye decor, fireworks aur be-hisaab dishes par barbad karna israaf hai jisse Allah naraz hota hai aur shadi se barkat uth jaati hai.

Tafseer-e-Kabeer me Imam Fakhruddin Razi aur Tafseer Kanz al-Iman me Aala Hazrat Imam Ahmed Raza Khan Barelvi is aayat-e-mubaraka ke taht farmate hain ke Allah Ta’ala ke har hukum me hikmaton ke khazane poshida hain. Momin ka kirdar ye hona chahiye ke wo kalam-e-ilahi ke aage sar-e-tasleem kham kare aur uski hidayat ko apni amali zindagi me dhal le.

3. Ahadith-e-Nabawiyyah aur Asaar-e-Sahaba

Huzoor Sarwar-e-Kawnain, Janab-e-Ahmad-e-Mujtaba ﷺ ke aqwal aur af’aal deen ka doosra bunyadi sarchashma hain. Hadeeth-e-Mubaraka me aata hai:

شَرُّ الطَّعَامِ طَعَامُ الْوَلِيمَةِ، يُدْعَى لَهَا الْأَغْنِيَاءُ وَيُتْرَكُ الْفُقَرَاءُ، وَمَنْ تَرَكَ الدَّعْوَةَ فَقَدْ عَصَى اللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُ

Tarjuma: “Sabse bad-tareen khana us walime ka khana hai jisme ameer logon ko bulaya jaye aur faqeer o miskeen chhor diye jayein, aur jisne dawat qubool na ki usne Allah aur uske Rasool ki na-farmani ki.”

— Sahih Bukhari, Hadith 5177; Sahih Muslim, Hadith 1432

Is hadith se maloom hua ke dawat-e-walima me ghareeb azeezon aur padosiyon ko shamil karna barkat ki zamin hai.

Sahaba-e-Kiram Ridwanullahi Ta’ala Alaihim Ajmaeen ne is farman-e-nabawi par jis tarah amali pehra diya, wo tareekh ka sunehri baab hai. Hazrat Abu Bakr Siddiq, Hazrat Umar Farooq, Hazrat Usman Ghani aur Hazrat Ali Al-Murtaza (R.A.) ne hamesha is baare me aitedal aur sunnat ka daman thama rakha.

4. Aimma-e-Kiram aur Maslak-e-Aala Hazrat ki Roshni me Fiqhi Tehqeeq

Sadrush Shariah Bahar-e-Shariat (Nikah o Walima ka Bayan) me farmate hain: ‘Walima shohar ki taraf se masnoon dawat hai. Agar kisi ke paas wasat na ho to jo kuch mayassar ho (chawal, halwa, ya saada khana) paka kar dawat de de, qarz lekar dhoom-dham karna sakht mana hai.’ Aala Hazrat Imam Ahmed Raza Khan farmate hain ke jis walima me naach-gana, mard-o-zan ka ikhtilat ya gunah ke aasaar hon, wahan shirkat karna jaiz nahi.

Mujaddid-e-Deen-o-Millat, Imam-e-Ahle-Sunnat Aala Hazrat Imam Ahmed Raza Khan Barelvi (Rahmatullahi Alayh) ne apni azeem-ush-shan tasneef Fatawa Razawiyyah me is maslay par be-misaal tehqeeq farmai hai. Aap farmate hain ke Ahle Sunnat wal Jamaat ka rasta wahi hai jispar Sahaba-e-Kiram, Tabi’een, Taba Tabi’een aur Aimma-e-Arba’a (Imam Abu Hanifa, Imam Malik, Imam Shafi’i, Imam Ahmad bin Hanbal) gamzan rahay. Deen me kisi bhi naye aqeeday ya man-marzi ki taweel ki koi gunjaish nahi hai. Har amal aur aqeeday ko nusoos-e-qat’iyyah ki roshni me samjhna zaroori hai.

Sadrush Shariah Allama Hakeem Muhammad Amjad Ali Azmi (R.A.) apni shohra-e-aafaq kitab Bahar-e-Shariat me farmate hain ke shariat-e-mutahharah ke ahkam do qism ke hain: Aqaid aur Mamlaat/Ibadaat. Aqaid me shak o shubhat se imaan me khalal waqe hota hai, jabki fiqh me Aslaf ki taqleed insan ko bhatakne se mehfooz rakhti hai. Ahle Sunnat ka sarmaya-e-iftikhar yahi hai ke unka silsila-e-ilm bila-fasl Sarwar-e-Kainat ﷺ tak pohanchta hai.

5. Masnoon Walima ke 5 Sharai Usool

1. Shab-e-Zifaf ke Baad Hona: Walima rukhsati aur khilwat-e-sahiha ke baad hi sunnat banta hai; rukhsati se pehle dawat ko walima nahi balki aam dawat kaha jata hai.

2. Apni Hesiyat ke Mutabiq Kharch: Agar Allah ne gunjaish di hai to bakra zabh karein, agar tangdasti ho to daal-chawal ya meetha khilana bhi sunnat ada karne ke liye kafi hai.

3. Ghareebon aur Miskeeno ka Hissa: Dawat ki list me safaid-posh rishtedaron aur miskeeno ko pehli tarjeeh dein.

4. Parday ka Sharai Ehtimam: Mardon aur auraton ke liye alag alag sitting aur dining arrangements hon taake be-pardagi na ho.

5. Dawat Qubool Karne ka Hukum: Agar dawat me koi ghair-sharai kaam (gana, video, behayai) na ho to walima ki dawat qubool karna sunnat-e-muakkadah hai.

6. Sunnat Walima vs Rasm-o-Riwaj ka Walima

Amoor	Sunnat Walima (Barkat)	Riwayati Riwaji Walima (Nuqsan)
Waqt	Rukhsati ke agle din	Hafton baad ya shadi se pehle
Kharch	Saada, ba-hesiyat, qarz se paak	Lakhon ka israaf, show-off, qarz
Mehfil	Ba-parda, ba-adab, roohani mahol	DJ music, photo shoot, be-pardagi
Mehmano ki List	Ghareeb, rishtedar, ulema shamil	Sirf VIP aur ameer log mad’oo
Nateeja	Azdawaji barkat, sukoon, khush-hali	Nahoosat, jhagde, maali bojh

7. Ahem Masail aur Ghalat-Fehmiyon ka Azala

Muashray me walima ka sunnat tareeqa shadi nikah dawat e walima sharai asool ke hawale se jo ghalat-fehmiyan aur ifrat-o-tafreet paayi jaati hai, uska mustanad ilmi jawab darj zail hai:

• Larki walon par walima ka kharcha daalna: Walima shohar par sunnat hai; larki walon par khane ka mutalba karna zulum aur haraam hai.
• Heavy loan lekar grand palace me dawat karna: Shariat me qarz lekar shaan dikhana sakht mana hai; sadagi hi sunnat hai.
• DJ aur dance ke baghair shadi be-maza hai: Shadi ek muqaddas ibadat hai; ise gunahon ka adda banana lanat ka baais hai.

8. Amali Zindagi me Nafaz (Practical Guidelines)

Har musalman ko chahiye ke wo darj zail amoor par pabandi ke sath amal kare taake uski amali zindagi me sunnat ka noor shamil ho sake:

1. Budget Sadagi se Banayein: Khane me 2 ya 3 saada items rakhein taake khana zaya na ho.
2. Parday ka Intizam: Ladies aur Gents ka hall alag karein aur camera-men ko ladies me na aane dein.
3. Khana Zaya Hone se Bachayein: Bacha hua khana ghareeb bastiyon me taqseem karne ka bandobast karein.
4. Ulema ki Dua: Walima me mutaqqi ulema aur sadat-e-kiram se nayi jodi ke liye dua karwayein.
5. Mubarakbaad ki Masnoon Dua: ‘Barakallahu laka wa baraka alaika wa jama’a bainakuma fee khair’ padhein.

9. Roohani Fawaid aur Tazkiyah-e-Nafs

Miya-biwi ke darmiyan be-panah muhabbat, aulaad-e-saleha ki wiladat, maali tangi se nijaat aur Rasoolullah ﷺ ki khushnoodi.

Sultan-ul-Awliya, Huzoor Ghaus-e-Azam Sayyiduna Shaykh Abdul Qadir Jilani (R.A.) apni shandar tasneef Al-Fath ar-Rabbani aur Ghunyat-ut-Talibeen me irshad farmate hain ke jab tak banda apne zahir ko shariat ke taabay aur batin ko ikhlas o hubb-e-ilahi se aaraasta na kare, tab tak haqeeqat-e-roohaniyat haasil nahi ho sakti. Shariat zahir ka husn hai aur Tareeqat batin ki taharat hai. Dono ek doosre ke laazoom hain.

Hujjat-ul-Islam Imam Muhammad Ghazali (R.A.) Ihya Ulum al-Din me irshad farmate hain ke momin ka har fail (chahe wo ibadat ho, zikr ho, ya dunya-wi kashmakash) agar niyat-e-saliha ke sath kiya jaye to wo ibadat ban jata hai. Dil ki paakizgi, bughz o keena se nijaat aur khuloos-e-niyat hi roohani kamyabi ki azeem kunji hai.

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